Biblical Answer

Understanding God's Sovereignty

As a Christian, I want to address your question about why God let your husband die. It's natural to feel confusion and pain when faced with the loss of a loved one. The Bible teaches us that God is sovereign over all creation, and His ways are not our ways (Isaiah 55:8-9). This means that God is in control of everything, including the events of our lives.

Why God Allows Suffering

In the Bible, we see examples of people who suffered and died, often without an explanation. Jesus Himself asked, "My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?" (Matthew 27:46) when He was on the cross. The answer is not that God was absent or uncaring, but rather that Jesus was fulfilling His obedience to the Father, even in death (Philippians 2:8). Similarly, your husband's death may be a part of God's plan to help you and him depend more on Him, as you mentioned. However, it's not because God was trying to punish or abandon you. Rather, it's because God is a God of love and mercy, who wants to draw you closer to Himself.

Finding Comfort in God's Love

I want to encourage you to look to God's love as the explanation for your husband's death, not just a lack of understanding. The Bible says, "For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life" (John 3:16). This love is not just a feeling, but a choice that God made to save us from our sins. Your husband's death may be a reminder of the ultimate sacrifice that Jesus made for us, and the love that God has for us. May you find comfort in this love, and may it bring you peace and strength in the midst of your grief. Remember that God is a God of comfort, and He is near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18). May you experience His presence and peace in the days ahead.