Biblical Answer

The Purpose of Sex in Marriage

God created sex and marriage as a way to experience intimacy with us, and to show us what his desire for intimacy with us is like. This is not the only reason why God created sex, but it is a very important one. Sex was designed to unite two people in a deep and meaningful way, and to produce something valuable, like children. However, the Bible also teaches that sex is only good when it is experienced within the context of a marriage. This is because God designed sex to fulfill something basic in human nature, and to satisfy our desires in a truly and profoundly meaningful way.

The Confinement of Sex to Marriage

God confines sexual activity exclusively to married couples for several reasons. First, sex outside of marriage can lead to a loss of what is best in sex. When we engage in sex outside of marriage, we risk losing the deep and meaningful connection that comes from a committed and loving relationship. This can lead to a superficial and empty experience of sex. Second, God wants us to understand the importance of commitment and self-sacrificial love in marriage. When we experience sex outside of marriage, we may not understand the value of these things, and we may not develop the kind of intimacy and connection that is possible in a marriage.

The Power of Sex

God gave sex extra power because he wanted to make it easier for us to agree that we cannot live holy lives without depending on him completely. Sex is a powerful force in our lives, and it can be difficult to manage. However, God wants us to understand that sex is not just about biology, but about relationships and intimacy. He wants us to understand the importance of commitment and self-sacrificial love in marriage, and to experience the kind of intimacy and connection that is possible in a marriage. By confining sex to marriage, God is showing us that he values commitment and intimacy, and that he wants us to experience the best that sex has to offer.