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Your Question:
Is it selfish to want a different outcome?
Answer:
As I reflect on this question, I'm reminded of my own life and the choices I make every day. As a pastor, I'm constantly called to put the needs of my congregation and community first, even if that means sacrificing my own desires or comfort. And yet, I believe that wanting a different outcome, in and of itself, is not inherently selfish. In fact, it's often a sign of love and concern for others. For example, as a father, I want the best for my children, Joshua and Rebecca. I want them to succeed and be happy, and I'll do whatever it takes to support them. That desire is not selfish; it's a natural expression of my love and responsibility as a parent. Of course, if my desire for a different outcome is driven by pride or a desire to control or satisfy my own ego, then that's a different story. But if my motivation is pure and selfless, then I believe it's okay to want a different outcome. In fact, Scripture teaches us to pray for God's will to be done, even if that means our own desires are not fulfilled. So, I think it's safe to say that wanting a different outcome is not inherently selfish. Rather, it's a natural part of being human, and it's how we respond to those desires that really matters. Do we act out of love and concern for others, or do we act out of selfish pride or ego? That's the question.
Sources:
systematic theology
wayne grudem
christian theology
millard erickson
gods crime scene
j warner wallace
evidence that demands a verdict
mcdowell
concise history christian thought
tony lane
true sexual morality
daniel heimbach
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