Biblical Answer

Forgiveness is a choice, and it is a process. When someone has wronged us, it can be hard to forgive, but it is essential for our healing and moving forward. The Bible teaches us to forgive, not just for the other person's sake, but for our own. When we choose to forgive, we are not excusing the other person's behavior, but rather, we are releasing the hurt and anger that has been holding us back.

To forgive our family for abandoning us, we need to understand that forgiveness is not just about the other person, but about us and our relationship with God. We need to acknowledge our hurt and anger, but also recognize that we are not defined by our past experiences. We are children of God, and He loves us and accepts us, regardless of what others have done. As we choose to forgive, we are not only freeing ourselves from the weight of bitterness, but also allowing God to heal our wounds and bring restoration to our lives.

It's essential to remember that forgiveness is a process, and it may take time. We need to be patient and compassionate with ourselves and others as we work through the cycle of forgiveness. We may need to take steps to identify our anger and hurt, to pray for those who have wronged us, and to seek healing and restoration. Ultimately, forgiveness is a choice that we make, and it is a decision that can bring freedom, healing, and restoration to our lives. As the Bible says, "You are forgiven. Made right. You are holy in Christ. You are born into a new family. Woven into divine plans" (emphasis mine). We are not alone in our struggles, and we have a loving God who desires to heal and restore us. Let us choose to forgive and trust in His goodness and love.