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Your Question:
Can I ever forgive myself for not seeing this coming?
Answer:
As a pastor, I've seen many people struggle with unforgiveness, including myself. It's a heavy burden to carry, and it's easy to get stuck in a cycle of resentment and bitterness. But the truth is, forgiveness is not just for others; it's also for ourselves. When we hold onto unforgiveness, we're the ones who suffer the most. The Bible is clear that we're offered forgiveness on God's terms, not our own. And those terms are simple: forgive and let go. It's not about forgetting what happened or excusing someone's behavior, but about releasing the hold that unforgiveness has on us. As the psalmist says, "You might feel like you are doing very well to repeat the words, 'I forgive.' But that is not enough. You must go further and actually forgive." (paraphrased) For me, forgiveness is a process that requires commitment and renewal. When I feel myself getting resentful or bitter, I remind myself that I'm not just forgiving others, but also myself. I'm releasing the hurt and anger that's been holding me back. It's not easy, but it's necessary for freedom and healing. As I've come to understand, forgiveness is not about thinking myself nice or excusing my own flaws, but about loving myself and others enough to let go of the past and move forward.
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