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The Value of Forgiveness in Our Daily Routines

Forgiveness is a crucial aspect of our daily routines, especially when we've been hurt. It's a process, not an event, and requires practice to perfect. Forgiveness is an act of self-defense, stopping the fatal bleeding of resentment. However, general forgiveness doesn't heal specific hurts, and it's essential to pinpoint what was taken from you. The Bible teaches that forgiveness is a core divine attribute that brought us into God's community (Eph. 4:32). Forgiveness is not about making the other person right but about making you free (Col. 3:13).

The Connection Between Forgiveness and Being Forgiven

The connection between our forgiving and being forgiven is graphically expounded in Scripture. Forgiveness cannot be a one-time event; it's a process that requires us to continually relinquish our bitterness. When we forgive, we're not rewarding our enemies but giving them a gift, just as God gave us the gift of forgiveness through Christ. Forgiveness is accompanied by a hatred of sin and a hunger for righteousness (Ps. 51:17). If we don't have a hatred of sin, our forgiveness is spurious. Forgiveness brings peace with our Maker, and we need it to have peace in ourselves.

The Benefits of Forgiveness

Forgiveness has numerous benefits, including healing our tender or sensitive feelings (1 Pet. 3:8). It's essential to access forgiveness for ourselves and extend it to others. When we forgive, we're not just forgiving the person who hurt us but also ourselves. Forgiveness allows us to release the burden of resentment and move forward. As Christians, we should strive to forgive others as God has forgiven us (Matt. 6:12-15). Forgiveness is not a feeling; it's a decision, and it's a process that requires practice and patience. By forgiving others, we're not just freeing them but also ourselves. Forgiveness brings healing, peace, and freedom, and it's a crucial aspect of our daily routines.