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Your Question:
how can i forgive myself for not being able to protect my parents?
Answer:
Forgiving oneself can be a challenging task, but it's a crucial step in healing and moving forward. As a pastor, I've seen many people struggle with feelings of guilt and shame, wondering how they can forgive themselves for not being able to protect their loved ones. The truth is, we can't always protect others, and that's not our responsibility. Our responsibility is to forgive ourselves and others, just as God forgives us. As I reflect on my own experiences, I realize that I've struggled with unforgiveness in my own family. But I've come to understand that unforgiveness is a pattern that can be broken. It's not about excusing our actions or justifying our failures, but about acknowledging our humanity and seeking forgiveness. Jesus teaches us that if we don't forgive others, our Father won't forgive us (Matthew 6:14-15). This isn't about earning forgiveness, but about recognizing our need for it. When it comes to forgiving ourselves, it's essential to remember that we are forgiven by God. We can't forgive ourselves more than God has already forgiven us. As the Bible says, "If you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you" (Matthew 6:14). So, I encourage you to pray for forgiveness, not just for others, but for yourself as well. Recognize that you are human, and that you've made mistakes. But also remember that you are forgiven, and that forgiveness is a choice you can make every day.
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