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Your Question:
Can I still trust my adult child?
Answer:
As a parent, I've come to realize that trusting my adult child is not about giving them free rein, but about building a relationship of mutual respect and trust. When Joshua, my 17-year-old son, says "don't you trust me?" I want to reassure him that my trust is not earned overnight, but it's a process that requires open communication and teamwork. I want him to know that I trust his heart, but I'm hesitant to trust his judgment in certain situations, and that's okay. As Joshua grows older, I've noticed that he's becoming more independent and questioning my opinions. While it's natural for him to want to assert his own judgment, it's essential for me to remain involved and guide him when necessary. I want to encourage him and give him the freedom to make decisions, but also be available to offer guidance and discipline when needed. It's a delicate balance, but I believe it's crucial for our relationship to grow stronger. As a Christian parent, I'm reminded that my child's ultimate trust should be in God, not in me. I want Joshua to know that even when I'm not there, God is always with him, and He is a love that he can depend on. I pray that Joshua will learn to trust God's wisdom and guidance, even when his own emotions and desires may lead him astray. By building a strong foundation of trust and communication, I hope to help Joshua develop the wisdom and character he needs to navigate life's challenges.
Sources:
raising passionate jesus followers
phil diane comer
the war on children
john macarthur
raising kids to follow christ
lee ann mancini
power of a praying parent
stormie omartian
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