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Your Question:
how do i balance my desire to help others with my own needs?
Answer:
As a pastor, I've seen many people struggle with balancing their desire to help others with their own needs. It's a delicate balance, indeed. Scripture reminds us that we are not meant to do this alone, but rather to seek advice and guidance from others (Prov. 20:18). We've been given gifts to serve others, and we also have needs that must be met by others. The key is to determine what form our lovingkindness will take, and to seek God's help in doing so. It's easy to get caught up in trying to help others, but we must also remember to take care of ourselves. As the Bible says, "Remember that there is joy set before you" (Heb. 12:2). When we're feeling tired and old, we need to call out for help from others. This can take many forms, from a compassionate reminder that we're not alone to a late-night meeting over coffee. We were created to need other people, and seeking their help is a sign of strength, not weakness. As I reflect on my own life, I'm reminded that my desire to help others is rooted in my love for God and my desire to serve Him. When I'm serving others, I'm not just doing it for their benefit, but for Jesus' sake as well (Proverbs 19:17). This mindset helps me to stay focused on what's truly important, and to avoid burnout. By seeking God's help and guidance, I'm able to find the balance I need to serve others while also taking care of myself.
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