can i still be a good partner when i'm struggling with my own pain?

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As a pastor and a husband, I've seen many couples struggle with pain and hardship in their relationships. It's easy to get caught up in the idea that happiness is the ultimate goal, and that suffering must be avoided at all costs. But I believe that's a misguided approach. When we're struggling with our own pain, it's tempting to focus on our own suffering and minimize our partner's pain. But that's not a healthy or loving response.

When Susan and I were first married, we had our fair share of struggles. We had to learn to navigate our differences and work through our own pain and selfishness. It wasn't always easy, but we made a commitment to each other to prioritize our relationship and work through the tough times together. And you know what? It's made our marriage stronger and more loving as a result. When we're willing to humble ourselves and work through our own pain, we create space for love and growth to flourish.

As I look back on our 19 years of marriage, I realize that pain and hardship have been a part of our journey. But it's not the pain itself that's the problem - it's our response to it. When we choose to focus on our own pain and selfishness, it can create a cycle of hurt and resentment. But when we choose to humble ourselves, seek love and forgiveness, and work through our pain together, it can lead to a deeper and more loving relationship. That's the choice we need to make, and that's the choice that can bring healing and restoration to our marriages.

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