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How do I deal with the shame of losing my business?

Answer:

Losing a business can be a heavy burden to carry, and the shame that comes with it can be overwhelming. As someone who's familiar with the weight of unmet expectations, I'd like to share a perspective that might help. When we're shamed, it's often because we've failed to meet our own standards or the expectations of others. It's essential to recognize that these standards are not always God's standards, but rather our own or those of others.

To deal with the shame of losing a business, I recommend taking concrete actions to counteract the failure. This can involve confessing freely and safely, seeking gracious accountability, and implementing specific preventative measures to avoid similar situations in the future. By doing so, you're demonstrating repentance, not just regret. It's also crucial to recognize that shame can lead to a vicious cycle of guilt and depression, so it's essential to take steps to break this cycle.

As a pastor, I've seen many people struggle with shame and guilt. My advice would be to seek help from friends, family, or a spiritual director. Multilayered support, including prayer, spiritual disciplines, and honest sharing with fellow strugglers, can be incredibly helpful in navigating this journey. Remember, God's forgiveness covers both guilt and shame, and His Word offers hope for asking forgiveness, forgiving, and reconciling with others.

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practicing the way
john mark comer
introduction biblical ethics
robertson mcquilkin
depression
edward welch
addictions a banquet in the grave
edward t welch
psalms
tremper longman
building dynamic faith
jerry falwell

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