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Can I really forgive myself?

Answer:

As a pastor and a Christian, I've seen many people struggle with the concept of forgiveness, particularly when it comes to forgiving themselves. The idea that we can't forgive ourselves, even though we know God has forgiven us, is a common theme. I remember a conversation with a friend who was struggling with this issue, and I shared with him the truth that God's forgiveness is not just for others, but also for ourselves.

When we forgive ourselves, it's not about denying our mistakes or justifying our actions. It's about acknowledging the hurt we've caused and choosing to release that burden. In my own life, I've had to deal with feelings of guilt and shame, particularly when I've failed as a husband or a father. But through prayer and reflection, I've come to realize that God's forgiveness is not just a gift for others, but also for me. When I forgive myself, I'm not excusing my behavior, but rather, I'm choosing to let go of the weight of guilt and shame that's holding me back.

As I reflect on my own experiences, I believe that forgiving ourselves is a process that requires humility and surrender. It's not always easy, but it's essential for our spiritual growth and well-being. When we hold onto unforgiveness, it can lead to bitterness and resentment, which can poison our souls. But when we choose to forgive ourselves, we open ourselves up to the liberating power of God's forgiveness, and we can experience healing and restoration.

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