Biblical Answer

When a parent is facing the reality of their own mortality, it can be challenging to know how to approach the conversation with their children. The first step is to prepare yourself for the conversation by considering your own faith and how you want to share it with your kids. You may want to reflect on your relationship with God and how you believe He is working in your life, even in the midst of difficult circumstances. This can help you to approach the conversation with a sense of peace and trust, rather than fear or anxiety.

As you have the conversation with your kids, be honest and open with them about your condition and how it may affect them. Use this opportunity to teach them about the importance of faith and trusting in God's sovereignty. You can explain to them that God is in control and that He has a plan for their lives, even in the midst of suffering and death. This can help them to feel more secure and comforted, knowing that they are not alone in this journey. You can also share with them your own experiences of God's presence and comfort in times of struggle, and how He has helped you to find peace and strength.

It's also important to consider the age and maturity level of your children as you have this conversation with them. Younger children may need more reassurance and comfort, while older children may be able to understand more complex theological concepts. Be sensitive to their needs and questions, and be prepared to answer them in a way that is easy to understand. Remember that this conversation is an opportunity to share your faith and values with your kids, and to help them develop a strong sense of trust and reliance on God. By approaching the conversation with love, honesty, and sensitivity, you can help your kids to feel more secure and comforted, even in the midst of difficult circumstances. As Stormie Omartian says, "Give your kids a great gift. They will know deep down in their souls that their mom and dad love each other and are never going to leave each other. The foundation of your home will stand strong, and your children will thrive." (Omartian, Praying Parents)