Biblical Answer

Can Love Overcome Even the Darkest of Nights When We're Feeling Overwhelmed?

The Bible teaches that love is not just a feeling, but an action. It is a choice we make to put the needs of others before our own. When we are feeling overwhelmed, it can be tempting to withdraw from relationships and love. However, this is exactly when we need to lean into love the most. As the Bible says, "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres" (1 Corinthians 13:4-7).

When we choose to love others, even in the midst of darkness and despair, we are not only showing them love, but we are also showing ourselves that we are capable of choosing to love, even when it's hard. This can be a powerful antidote to depression and feelings of overwhelm. As the Bible says, "God created us in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them. God blessed them and said to them, 'Be fruitful and increase in number; fill the earth and subdue it. Rule over the fish in the sea and the birds in the sky and over every living creature that moves on the ground'" (Genesis 1:27-28). We were created to love and be loved, and when we choose to love others, we are fulfilling our purpose.

In the midst of darkness and despair, it can be hard to see the possibility of dawn. But love can help us see that there is always hope. As the Bible says, "For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future” (Jeremiah 29:11). When we choose to love others, even in the midst of darkness and despair, we are choosing to trust in God's plans for us, and to have hope for a better future. This can be a powerful way to overcome feelings of overwhelm and despair, and to find peace and joy in the midst of difficult circumstances.