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Your Question:
why did god let me get into a fight with my sibling?
Answer:
As a pastor and a parent, I've seen my fair share of conflicts between siblings. And I've learned that it's not uncommon for children to get into fights with each other. But why does God allow this to happen? I believe it's an opportunity for us to teach our children how to resolve conflicts in a God-honoring way. As Ephesians 5:1-2 says, "Follow God's example, therefore, as dearly loved children and walk in the way of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God." When my children get into fights, I try to help them work things out on their own. I remind them that they need to learn to resolve their disputes lovingly, just like Christ did for us. And if they can't work things out, they may lose a privilege or have to apologize to each other. But as a parent, it's not my job to be their referee all the time. I need to teach them how to communicate effectively and forgive each other, just as God forgives us. As a Christian, I believe that God allows us to go through trials and conflicts so that we can grow in our faith and become more like Christ. First Peter 4:12 says, "Beloved, do not think it strange concerning the fiery trial which is to try you, as though some strange thing happened to you." So, when my children get into fights, I try to see it as an opportunity for them to learn and grow, and for me to teach them how to resolve conflicts in a way that honors God.
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