Biblical Answer

To know if you're doing the right thing for yourself, you must consider your motivations and values. Are you acting out of a desire to please God, or are you driven by your own desires and interests? The Bible teaches that our desires can be a source of both good and evil (Matthew 15:18-20). When we're living the life of faith, we're not just doing what we want to do, but rather what we believe is right according to God's Word. This requires a willingness to surrender our own rights and desires to God's sovereignty (Romans 12:1-2). If you're unsure whether you're doing the right thing, ask yourself if you're motivated by a desire to please God or if you're simply following your own desires.

It's also important to consider the values that are guiding your decisions. Are they values that align with God's Word, or are they values that are shaped by the world around you? The Bible teaches that our values are shaped by our relationship with God, and that we should continually examine our values to ensure they're helping us achieve our goal of living a life that honors God (Psalm 119:37-38). When we're living according to God's values, we're more likely to make decisions that are in line with His will. On the other hand, if our values are shaped by the world, we may find ourselves struggling with desires that are contrary to God's will.

Ultimately, the question of whether you're doing the right thing for yourself is a matter of the heart. It requires a willingness to examine your motivations and values, and to surrender your desires to God's sovereignty. As the Bible says, "For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future” (Jeremiah 29:11). When we're living according to God's plan, we can be confident that we're doing the right thing, even when it's difficult or uncomfortable. So, take a moment to reflect on your motivations and values, and ask yourself if you're living according to God's will. If not, seek His guidance and wisdom to help you make decisions that align with His plan for your life.