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am i a bad person for not being able to forgive?
Answer:
Forgiveness is a complex issue, and it's not always easy to let go of hurt and resentment. As a pastor and a Christian, I believe that forgiveness is a crucial aspect of our faith. It's not just about forgiving others, but also about forgiving ourselves. The Bible teaches us that we must forgive others as we have been forgiven by God (Matthew 6:14-15). However, forgiveness doesn't mean forgetting or excusing the hurtful behavior, but rather releasing the negative emotions associated with it. It's interesting to note that often, our struggle to forgive is rooted in a desire for revenge or payback. We want the other person to feel the same pain and hurt that we've experienced. But this approach only leads to more suffering and division. As the passage says, "By telling them off, we are actually getting revenge." This is not the spirit of forgiveness, but rather a spirit of retaliation. If you're struggling to forgive, it's essential to recognize that you're not alone. Many people, including family members, struggle with unforgiveness. The key is to acknowledge your feelings and take steps to release them. Forgiveness is a process, and it may take time, but it's a crucial step towards healing and freedom. As the passage says, "Forgiveness is absolutely liberating, because until you give up whatever hold this unforgiving spirit has on you, you are in bondage to it."
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