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What is the secret to a family's strength when love is tested?

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As a pastor and a husband, I've seen my fair share of challenges in family relationships. But I've come to realize that the secret to a family's strength when love is tested lies in prayer. When we cover our family relationships in prayer, whether it's with our children, spouses, or extended family members, we can avoid many instances of strained or severed relationships. I've experienced this firsthand with my own family. When my daughter Rebecca was born, her brother Joshua was four and a half years old, and I prayed from the beginning that they would develop a loving relationship.

To give our spouse the life-healing love they need, we must be intentional about expressing love in various ways. As the Bible says, love should travel the entire biblical spectrum, from encouragement to confrontation. We must be willing to show love in different forms, even when it's hard. In my experience, my wife Susan and I have had to work hard to show love to each other, especially during difficult times. But when we do, our marriage grows stronger, and our love for each other deepens.

Ultimately, the key to a family's strength when love is tested is to model the love of Christ to one another. As believers, we are commanded to love each other as evidence of genuine faith. When we demonstrate love to our family members, we help them grow in their capacity to love others. I pray that my family will love and accept each other, and that we will find favor with others as well. By doing so, we can build a strong and loving family that reflects the character of Christ.

Sources:

power of a praying parent
stormie omartian
meaning of marriage
timothy keller
addictions a banquet in the grave
edward t welch
introduction biblical ethics
robertson mcquilkin
the war on children
john macarthur
confronting christianity
rebecca mclaughlin
elemental theology
emery bancroft

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