Biblical Answer

The Best Way to Show Kindness to Those Around Us When We're Feeling Tired

When we're feeling tired, it can be challenging to show kindness to those around us. However, kindness is not just a feeling, but a choice we can make. As the Bible says, "Bind them around your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart" (Proverbs 3:3). This means that we can choose to put on a friendly manner and behave as if we were a nicer person than we actually are. By doing so, we can often find ourselves genuinely feeling friendlier than we were before.

Practical Ways to Show Kindness

There are many practical ways to show kindness to those around us, even when we're feeling tired. We can start by being present with others, whether it's through friendly conversation over coffee or by doing something for them. We can also show kindness by going somewhere with them, even if it's just a short walk around the block. As the Bible says, "Love one another as I have loved you" (John 15:12). We can also show kindness by simply being affectionate with others, giving them hugs and reminding them that we care. In fact, research has shown that people need at least twelve hugs every day in order to grow and thrive.

A Call to Action

As Christians, we are called to show kindness to others, even when it's hard. We can do this by being intentional about serving others, whether it's through volunteering at a homeless shelter or a nursing home. We can also serve others by simply being present with them and showing them kindness. As Jesus said, "Whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me" (Matthew 25:40). So, let's make a conscious effort to show kindness to those around us, even when we're feeling tired. Let's pray and ask God to show us where we can serve Him and others well, and let's trust that He will give us the strength and energy to do so. By doing so, we can make a real difference in the lives of those around us and bring joy and encouragement to those who need it most.