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Can I still be a good friend if I'm struggling to cope?

Answer:

As I reflect on the question of whether you can still be a good friend if you're struggling to cope, I'm reminded of the importance of constancy and transparency in true friendships. Real friends always let you in and never let you down. However, when we're struggling to cope, it can be challenging to maintain these qualities.

It's essential to understand that struggling to cope doesn't mean you're a bad friend. In fact, it's often during difficult times that we need our friends the most. As Proverbs says, "A friend loves at all times and especially during adversity" (Proverbs 17:17). If you're struggling to cope, it's crucial to be honest with your friends about how you're feeling, and to seek their support and guidance.

As a pastor, I've seen many people struggle with depression and other mental health issues, and I've seen how it can affect their relationships. But I've also seen how friends can be a source of comfort and support during difficult times. So, if you're struggling to cope, don't be afraid to reach out to your friends for help. And if you're a friend to someone who's struggling, be patient, understanding, and supportive. Remember, true friendship is about being there for each other, even when it's hard.

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