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Your Question:
Can I really forgive my ex for what they did to me?
Answer:
Forgiveness is a choice we make, and it's essential to understand that it doesn't mean the other person was right. It's about trusting that God is at work in their life, even if they've wronged us. As a pastor, I've seen the impact of unforgiveness on individuals and their relationships. It can poison our soul and lead to a life of bitterness and resentment. When we forgive someone, we're not just restoring their relationship with us, but also with themselves. Forgiveness is liberating because it frees us from the burden of holding onto resentment. We can choose to forgive without expecting the other person to change or apologize. In fact, forgiveness doesn't even require the other person's acknowledgment or apology. It's a gift we give ourselves, and it's a choice we make to trust in God's goodness and sovereignty. As a husband and father, I've learned the importance of modeling forgiveness for my family. When we apologize and ask for forgiveness, we're not just restoring relationships, but also teaching our children the value of forgiveness and humility. It's a process that requires patience, empathy, and self-awareness, but it's a crucial step in living out our faith and experiencing the freedom that comes with forgiveness.
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power of a praying parent
stormie omartian
addictions a banquet in the grave
edward t welch
jesus on trial
david limbaugh
depression
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