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Can I still be a good friend when I'm struggling myself?

Answer:

As someone who has experienced struggles in life, I can attest to the challenges of being a good friend when you're struggling yourself. It's easy to get caught up in our own problems and neglect the needs of others. However, I believe that even in our darkest moments, we can still choose to be present for our friends and loved ones.

In fact, I think that's where true friendship is revealed. When we're struggling, it's easy to become isolated and withdrawn, but real friends will reach out to us, listen to us, and support us. They'll help us see that we're not alone and that we have value and worth, even when we can't see it ourselves. As a pastor, I've seen this play out time and time again in the lives of people who are going through difficult times.

So, can you still be a good friend when you're struggling yourself? Absolutely. In fact, it's often in those moments that we need our friends the most. By being present, listening, and showing up for others, we can be a source of hope and support, even when we're struggling to find it for ourselves. And as Christians, we have the added blessing of being able to turn to Jesus, our true Friend, who is always present and always faithful.

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