Biblical Answer

The Problem of Unpaid Debts: Guilt and Shame

When it comes to forgiving ourselves, it can be hard to let go of the past, especially when it comes to unpaid debts, whether it's tax-related or personal. We feel guilty and ashamed, and it's as if we're carrying around a heavy weight that we can't shake off. This guilt and shame can lead to a sense of hopelessness and despair, making it even more difficult to forgive ourselves.

The Cycle of Forgiveness: Breaking Free from the Past

The key to breaking free from the past is to understand that forgiveness is not just about letting ourselves off the hook, but about recognizing that Jesus forgives us. This is the starting point for our new identity, one that is free from the burdens of guilt and shame. To complete the cycle of forgiveness, we need to acknowledge the pain we've been avoiding, turn around and face our history, and take responsibility for our past. This means making amends, apologizing, and canceling debts that can't be repaid. By doing so, we can begin to heal and move forward.

Forgiving Ourselves: A Matter of Faith

Forgiving ourselves is a matter of faith, not feelings. It's about recognizing that God has forgiven us and that we have the power to forgive ourselves. We don't have to wait until we feel like forgiving; we can decide to forgive as an act of our will. This means canceling the debt, making it right with God, and moving forward. As the Bible says, "You will by no means get out of there till you have paid the last penny" (Matthew 5:26). But it's not about paying the debt ourselves; it's about recognizing that Jesus has already paid the price for our forgiveness. By faith, we can forgive ourselves and start anew.