Biblical Answer

When you're not there for your kids, several things can happen. Firstly, they may feel unloved or uncared for. This can lead to a sense of insecurity and low self-esteem. Children thrive on attention and affection from their parents, and when they don't receive it, they may feel like they're not important. Secondly, they may feel like they're not a priority in your life. This can lead to resentment and anger towards you, which can be difficult to overcome. Thirdly, they may feel like they're on their own and have to navigate the world without your guidance and support. This can be overwhelming and scary for them.

Furthermore, when you're not there for your kids, it can also affect their development and future. They may struggle with anxiety, depression, and other emotional issues. They may also struggle academically and socially. Additionally, they may not develop the skills and values that you want them to have. As a parent, it's essential to be present and engaged in your child's life, even when they're grown and independent. This means being available to listen, offer guidance, and provide emotional support. By being present, you can help your child develop into a confident, capable, and compassionate person.

Ultimately, being there for your kids is not just about meeting their physical needs, but also about meeting their emotional and spiritual needs. It's about showing them love, care, and compassion, and helping them develop a strong sense of identity and purpose. As Christians, we believe that God created us to have a personal relationship with Him, and that we are called to love and serve others. As parents, we have a unique opportunity to model this love and service to our children, and to help them develop a deep and abiding relationship with God. By being present and engaged in our child's life, we can help them grow into the person God created them to be, and fulfill their purpose in life.