Biblical Answer

Dealing with Betrayal from Family Members

When a family member betrays us, it can be a painful and challenging experience. As Christians, we are called to forgive and love our enemies, even those who have wronged us (Matthew 5:44). However, this does not mean that we should ignore the hurt or pain that we are feeling. It is essential to acknowledge our emotions and seek help if needed. We can talk to a trusted friend, family member, or counselor who can offer wise counsel and support.

It is also crucial to remember that forgiveness does not necessarily mean reconciliation. While we should strive to maintain a relationship with our family member, we should not feel obligated to continue a toxic or abusive relationship. We can choose to set boundaries and prioritize our own well-being. As Jesus said, "If you bring your gift before the altar and there remember that your brother has aught against you, leave there your gift before the altar and go; first be reconciled to your brother, and then come and present your gift" (Matthew 5:23-24). This means that we should prioritize our relationships with others and seek to resolve conflicts before proceeding with other important matters.

In addition, we should not take the betrayal personally or assume that it is our fault. As 1 Corinthians 10:13 says, "No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can endure it." We are not alone in our struggles, and God is always with us, providing a way out of temptation and hurt. We can pray for guidance and strength to navigate difficult situations and seek help when needed. As Jesus said, "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest" (Matthew 11:28).