Biblical Answer

Sharing Your Struggles with Friends

When facing challenges, it's natural to turn to friends for support and encouragement. However, if you're struggling with something, it's essential to share your feelings with them in a way that's open and honest. Unfortunately, some friends may respond with unhelpful advice, such as "be sure, hang in there, keep at it, you can do it." These phrases may come across as dismissive or uncaring, making you feel like your struggles are not being taken seriously.

When sharing your struggles with friends, it's crucial to be aware of their responses and boundaries. If you feel like your friends are not taking your struggles seriously or are not being supportive, it may be time to reevaluate the friendship. As the Bible teaches, "a bad friend is like a bad neighbor, a bad neighbor is like a bad friend" (Proverbs 25:19). This means that if someone is not being a good friend to you, it's likely they're not a good neighbor or friend to others either. In such cases, it may be best to distance yourself from them.

If you're struggling with depression or other mental health issues, it's essential to find friends who will listen to you without judgment. As the Bible says, "a true friend is one who tells you the truth in love" (Proverbs 27:6). This means that a good friend will listen to you, offer support, and provide guidance when needed. If you're struggling with something, don't be afraid to reach out to friends who will listen to you and offer support. Remember, "a friend loves at all times" (Proverbs 17:17), and true friends will be there for you through thick and thin. So, don't be afraid to share your struggles with friends who will listen and support you.