Biblical Answer

To deal with the anger and frustration of being scammed by my family member, I would recommend taking the following steps:

Step 1: Recognize the Problem and Seek Help

It's essential to acknowledge that unresolved anger can have multigenerational implications. If you're feeling angry and frustrated, it's crucial to seek help from a trusted friend, family member, or professional counselor. They can offer wise counsel and help you develop a plan to deal with your anger.

Step 2: Choose Forgiveness

Forgiveness is the key to dislodging anger from your heart. It's not about the other person apologizing or making things right; it's about you choosing to forgive and release the anger. Remember, you can't control others, but you can control how you respond to the situation. As Matthew 5:23-24 says, "Therefore, if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother or sister has something against you, leave your gift there in front of the altar. First go and be reconciled to them, then come and offer your gift."

Step 3: Let Go of the Anger

To let go of the anger, you need to quit using your story as an excuse. You've got to decide that you can be free from the anger and choose to forgive your family member. It's not easy, but it's essential to deal with the anger and move forward. As the Bible says, "You will know the truth, and the truth will set you free" (John 8:32). Forgiveness is the truth that can set you free from the anger and frustration of being scammed by your family member. By choosing forgiveness, you can begin to heal and move forward, leaving the anger and frustration behind.