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What happens when we prioritize others over ourselves when life gets busy?
Answer:
As a pastor, I've seen many people struggle with prioritizing others over themselves when life gets busy. It's a common issue, especially when we're trying to balance our responsibilities at home, work, and in the community. When we prioritize others, we often end up sacrificing our own needs and desires, which can lead to burnout and exhaustion. It's essential to find a balance between caring for others and taking care of ourselves. When we prioritize others, it can be a beautiful thing, but it can also be a source of stress and anxiety. As Stephen Covey said, "We achieve inner peace when our schedule aligns with our values." When our schedules are out of alignment with our values, we can feel like we're constantly running on a treadmill, never getting ahead. To avoid this, we need to regularly examine our priorities and make sure they align with our values. This might mean saying no to certain commitments or activities that don't align with our values. As a husband and father, I've learned the importance of prioritizing my family and my relationship with God. When I make time for these things, I find that I have more energy and joy to give to others. It's not about being selfish or self-centered; it's about being intentional with our time and energy. By prioritizing others, we can actually create space for more meaningful relationships and a deeper sense of purpose. As the Bible says, "Remember that there is joy set before you" (Hebrews 12:2). When we prioritize others, we can experience that joy and find fulfillment in our relationships.
Sources:
introduction biblical ethics
robertson mcquilkin
addictions a banquet in the grave
edward t welch
practicing the way
john mark comer
power of a praying wife
stormie omartian
my utmost for his highest
oswald chambers
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