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What happens when love is tested in the face of uncertainty?

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As a pastor of a local evangelical church, I've seen many couples struggle with the uncertainty of love. When love is tested in the face of uncertainty, it can be a challenging and excruciating experience. It's like trying to guess correctly whether the feelings are strong enough or if the light of love in someone's eyes is a lasting treasure or just a moment's pleasure. My wife Susan and I have been married for 19 years, and I can attest that it takes commitment, responsibility, and practice to reignite feelings of joyous affection and strong passion.

In our church, we often discuss the importance of biblical characteristics in a potential mate. Love is not just a feeling that comes and goes, but a responsibility that should be practiced even if it's hard. We encourage our members to look for a partner who shares their faith, values, and commitment to God. This helps build a strong foundation for a lifelong relationship. My son Joshua is growing up, and I want him to understand the importance of love as a responsibility, not just a feeling.

When love is tested, it's essential to remember that God is the one who enables true believers to acknowledge Jesus as His Son. Perfect love for God shows itself in confidence before God and a deep love for other believers. As a family, we strive to demonstrate this love and commitment to each other, even in the face of uncertainty. By surrendering ourselves to God and trusting in His plan, we can navigate the challenges of love and build a stronger, more enduring relationship.

Sources:

letters of john
john stott
introduction biblical ethics
robertson mcquilkin
true sexual morality
daniel heimbach
meaning of marriage
timothy keller
right thinking in age of chaos
john macarthur
new testament background and message
thomas lea
proverbs
lindsay wilson
my utmost for his highest
oswald chambers

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