Biblical Answer

Leaving a Lasting Legacy

As a Christian parent, you may wonder what kind of legacy you can leave your children if you're not around to see them grow up. The Bible teaches us that our children are a blessing from God, and it's our responsibility to raise them to know and follow Him (Psalm 127:3-5). However, it's not about leaving a physical legacy, but rather a spiritual one. Your children will inherit your values, your faith, and your love for God, which will shape their lives and guide them in their relationship with Him.

A Kingdom Perspective

The kingdom way of parenting is about letting go and giving your children the freedom to grow and make their own decisions. This approach may seem counterintuitive, but it's rooted in the love and trust that God has for us. As we let go, our children will learn to rely on God and trust in His sovereignty over their lives. By giving them the freedom to make choices, we're teaching them to seek God's guidance and wisdom in all areas of life. This is the kind of legacy that will truly last, one that will impact not just their lives but also the lives of their children and grandchildren.

A Lasting Impact

So, what kind of legacy can you leave your children if you're not around to see them grow up? It's not about what they do or where they go, but about the values and faith you've instilled in them. It's about teaching them to love and serve God, and to live out their faith in a way that honors Him. As you prepare to leave this life, take time to think about the values and principles you want to pass on to your children. Write them down, pray about them, and ask God to help you impart them to your children. This is the kind of legacy that will truly last, one that will impact generations to come. As the Bible says, "Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it" (Proverbs 22:6). By following this principle, you can be confident that your legacy will endure long after you're gone.