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Your Question:
How can I forgive myself for not being able to provide?
Answer:
Forgiving yourself can be a challenging task, especially when you feel like you've failed in some way. As a pastor, I've seen many people struggle with this issue, including myself. When I reflect on my own experiences, I realize that forgiveness is not just about others forgiving us, but also about forgiving ourselves. It's a process of acknowledging our mistakes, taking responsibility for them, and seeking to learn from them. In the context of your situation, it seems like you're struggling with feelings of guilt and shame related to your heavy drinking. You're acknowledging that you've been blaming others and trying to cover up your own issues. That takes a lot of courage. The first step in forgiving yourself is to acknowledge the hurt or pain you've caused, not just to others, but also to yourself. It's essential to recognize that you're not defined by your mistakes, but by your willingness to learn from them and grow. As you work through this process, remember that God's forgiveness is not just a feeling, but a fact. He has already forgiven you through the cross of Christ. Our job is to receive that forgiveness and to extend it to ourselves as well. It's not always easy, but it's a crucial step in healing and moving forward. As the Bible says, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness." (1 John 1:9)
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addictions a banquet in the grave
edward t welch
depression
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building dynamic faith
jerry falwell
power of a praying parent
stormie omartian
my utmost for his highest
oswald chambers
raising passionate jesus followers
phil diane comer
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