Biblical Answer

The Freedom of Forgiveness

Forgiveness is a fundamental aspect of the Christian life, and it plays a crucial role in setting us free from the weight of our past hurts. As the Bible teaches, forgiveness is not only a moral obligation, but also a means of liberation. When we forgive, we stop the "fatal bleeding of resentment" that can consume us and lead to despair (Bono). Forgiveness is an act of self-defense, a "tourniquet that stops the bleeding" of negative emotions that can weigh us down.

The connection between forgiveness and freedom is deeply rooted in the biblical concept of God's forgiveness. When we experience God's forgiveness, it covers not only our guilt but also our shame. This means that we can begin to release the burden of our past hurts and move forward in freedom. However, this process is not always easy. As Jim acknowledges, forgiveness can be hard, and it requires us to confront our own pain and hurt. Yet, as Christian friend reminds us, forgiveness is not a one-time event, but a process that we must continually renew and commit to.

Forgiveness does not mean forgetting or excusing the wrongdoing of others, but rather releasing the hold that their actions have on us. When we forgive, we do not change the past or the other person's actions, but we do release ourselves from the burden of resentment and bitterness. As Christian friend wisely says, "Forgiveness doesn't make the other person right, it makes you free." This freedom is not just a feeling, but a reality that can be experienced in our daily lives as we learn to let go of our past hurts and trust in God's forgiveness and sovereignty. By embracing forgiveness, we can begin to live in the freedom that God intends for us, and experience the peace and joy that comes from a heart that is at peace with God and others.