Biblical Answer

When telling your kids that their mom is dying, it's essential to be honest and open with them. This conversation can be challenging, but it's crucial to approach it with sensitivity and compassion. Before having this conversation, consider your child's age and maturity level. Younger children may not fully understand the concept of death, and it's best to explain it in a way they can comprehend. For example, you might say, "Mommy's body is very sick, and the doctors don't think she can get better. She's going to be in heaven with God soon."

As you have this conversation, pay attention to your child's questions and concerns. They may ask why their mom is dying or why God allowed this to happen. Be honest and reassuring in your response, but also acknowledge the complexity of these questions. You might say, "I don't know why God allowed this to happen, but I do know that He loves us and is always with us." It's also essential to let your child know that they are loved and that you will always be there for them. You can say, "I love you so much, and I'll always be here to take care of you."

In the midst of this difficult conversation, it's essential to remember that you are not only talking to your child but also to your own heart. This conversation can be a challenging reminder of your own mortality and the impermanence of life. However, by being honest and open with your child, you can create a foundation of trust and love that will help them navigate the complexities of life. As you have this conversation, remember to take care of yourself and seek support from loved ones, friends, or a counselor if needed. By doing so, you can provide your child with the love, support, and guidance they need during this difficult time. I pray that you will find the strength and wisdom to have this conversation with your child and to provide them with the comfort and reassurance they need.