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Understanding Forgiveness and Reconciliation

Forgiveness and reconciliation are two distinct concepts that are often intertwined but not the same. Forgiveness is an act of self-defense, a process of releasing resentment and bitterness, while reconciliation is the restoring of a relationship between two parties. Forgiveness is not dependent on the actions of the offender, but rather on the choice of the offended person to let go of their anger and hurt.

Forgiveness: A Process, Not an Event

Forgiveness is not a one-time event, but rather a process that takes practice to perfect. It involves relinquishing bitterness and resentment multiple times, continually letting go of the negative emotions that arise from a hurtful situation. Forgiveness has been linked to multiple positive mental and physical health outcomes, and is an essential aspect of living a life that reflects Christian values and teachings. As Jesus taught, forgiveness is an act of self-defense that stops the fatal bleeding of resentment.

Reconciliation: Restoring Relationship

Reconciliation, on the other hand, is the restoring of a relationship between two parties. It involves ending a relation of enmity and substituting it with one of peace and goodwill. In the context of the Christian faith, reconciliation refers to the restoring of the relationship between humanity and God, which was broken by sin. This is what Jesus Christ accomplished through redemption. As we strive to live out our faith, we must prioritize urgency in reconciliation, seeking to solve conflicts and right wrongs as soon as possible. By doing so, we can reflect the values of the kingdom of God and live out our faith in a way that honors God.