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Why did my own child betray me like this?

Answer:

My child, Joshua, has been going through a tough time lately. As a parent, I've come to realize that I've been a part of the problem. I've been so focused on being a good pastor and providing for my family that I've neglected spending quality time with him. I've also been guilty of being too critical and judgmental, which has caused him to feel unloved and unheard.

I remember one instance where Joshua got upset with me, and I reacted harshly. I didn't take the time to listen to his perspective or understand what was really going on. Instead, I lashed out at him, which only made things worse. I realized later that I had been feeling guilty about not being more involved in his life, and my frustration had turned into anger. I've since apologized to Joshua and asked for his forgiveness, explaining to him why my behavior was hurtful and wrong.

As I reflect on my own parenting, I realize that I've been trying to control the situation rather than listening to God's guidance. I've been so focused on being a good parent that I've forgotten to ask for God's help. I've come to understand that my child is copying me, and if I want him to learn self-control and obedience, I need to model those qualities myself. I'm praying for God to help me become a better parent, to guide me in understanding my child's needs, and to give me the strength to live a life of self-control.

Sources:

raising passionate jesus followers
phil diane comer
power of a praying parent
stormie omartian

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