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How do I forgive my adult child for stealing from me?

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Forgiving an adult child for stealing from you can be a challenging task. As a pastor, I've seen that humility is key to understanding the power of grace. If you're struggling to forgive your child, it may be because you feel superior to them. Recognize that you, too, are a sinner and that God's laws are for your benefit.

In this situation, it's essential to have a conversation with your child. Sit down with them, look them in the eye, and remind them that you love them unconditionally, even when they make mistakes. Let them know that there's always another chance to try again and that you believe in their ability to do better next time. This simple reminder can encourage them to make amends and work towards healing.

However, forgiveness may not be complete without restitution. If your child has stolen from you, they should return the item and offer something else in addition to it. According to God's Word, when we steal something, we are to pay the person back sevenfold (Proverbs 6:31). Doing this is a more effective consequence than just giving back the item. It's also crucial to pray with your child, asking God to give them a heart that is quick to confess their mistakes and to understand the importance of confession and repentance.

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raising kids to follow christ
lee ann mancini
meaning of marriage
timothy keller
raising passionate jesus followers
phil diane comer
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stormie omartian
addictions a banquet in the grave
edward t welch

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