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What happens when love turns to anger in our daily routines?
Answer:
As a pastor and a husband, I've seen firsthand how love can turn to anger in our daily routines. When we're dominated by anger, it can manifest in destructive ways, such as verbally abusing our loved ones. This is exactly what happened in our home when my anger got the best of me. I would lash out at my family, and it was like a weight was lifted off my chest, but at the same time, it was a heavy burden on their hearts. As I reflect on my own anger, I realize that it's often a sign that I'm not trusting God. When I'm angry, I'm not imitating God's character, but rather my own selfish desires. I'm making judgments about right and wrong, but I'm not considering God's perspective. This is where I need to be an expert in knowing my own heart, to understand that my anger reveals more about my own heart than it does about the situation. I need to learn to control my outbursts, to rule my spirit, and to bring my anger to Jesus for redemption. As a family, we've learned to recognize the signs of anger and to diffuse it quickly. We've memorized Ephesians 4:25-32 together, and focusing on verse 29 has helped us to respond to each other in a more loving way. When I'm angry, I need to take a step back, reflect on my heart, and seek God's perspective. I need to remember that God is a compassionate and gracious God, slow to anger and abounding in love. When I imitate God's character, I'm truly being human, and that's when I can experience joy and peace, even in the midst of challenging circumstances.
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depression
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