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The Gift of Sex: Understanding Gods Design

Sex is a gift from God, and we should accept it with gratitude. But rules for enjoying God's gift of sex are set by the giver. They are set by what pleases God, not by what pleases us. Without knowing God well, some people fear His rules, but when we understand God's design, we can appreciate the goodness of sex. The Bible reveals that sex is a good gift from God, not because it is the ultimate source of pleasure or fulfillment, but because it reflects God's character and purposes.

God's Design for Sex: Unity and Production

God designed sex to fulfill something basic in human nature, which is the desire for unity and connection with another person. Sex satisfies this desire, but not in the final and perfect sense that comes only from knowing God himself. When we engage in sex, we experience a deep connection with the other person, which is a reflection of God's own desire for unity and connection with humanity. This is why the Bible says that sex is a way of joining beings made in God's image (Genesis 1:27). Sex is not just a physical act, but a way of expressing love, commitment, and self-giving.

Honoring God in Sex

When it comes to sexual behavior, we need to get specific about how to keep sex holy. The Bible provides structure and guidelines for enjoying God's gift of sex. We should honor God in sex by being committed to our partner, respecting their boundaries, and seeking to please God in our relationships. We should not use sex as a way to worship God, nor should we honor sex in the place of God. Instead, we should use sex as a way to express our love and commitment to our partner, while also seeking to please God in our relationships. By understanding God's design for sex, we can experience the goodness of sex in a way that honors God and brings joy to our lives.