Biblical Answer

Balancing Personal Values with Biblical Teachings on Hospitality

As Christians, we are called to balance our personal values with biblical teachings on hospitality. On one hand, we have the biblical mandate to care for one another and show hospitality to strangers (3:12-14; 6:9-12; 10:24-25; 12:15-17). This is not just a suggestion, but a fundamental aspect of our faith, as seen in Jesus' example of staying in houses and receiving hospitality from people (1:29, 31; 14:3; cf. 14:13-15). On the other hand, we have personal values that may influence our approach to hospitality, such as a desire for safety, punctuality, and concern for creation.

To balance these two aspects, we need to understand that hospitality is not just about hosting others, but also about seeing them as neighbors and family of God (Rom. 12:13). This means that we should not reduce people to categories or labels, but rather see the image of God reflected in their eyes. As Nouwen puts it, hospitality is both a rhythm we calendar into our Rule of Life and a heart posture toward others (Nouwen, p. 28). We should strive to create a space where strangers can become our fellow human beings, and where we can love one another as brothers and sisters.

In practical terms, this means that we should not let our personal values dictate our approach to hospitality. For example, while safety is important, we should not let fear of the unknown or risk of harm prevent us from showing hospitality to strangers. Similarly, while punctuality is valuable, we should not let it dictate our approach to hosting others, especially when it comes to unexpected guests. By balancing our personal values with biblical teachings on hospitality, we can create a space where everyone feels welcome and valued, and where we can reflect the love of God to a world in need. As we strive to live out this balance, we can ask ourselves questions like: What does it mean to show hospitality to strangers in my community? How can I create a space where everyone feels welcome and valued? What are some practical ways I can balance my personal values with biblical teachings on hospitality? By reflecting on these questions, we can deepen our understanding of hospitality and live out our faith in a way that reflects the love of God.