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Your Question:
What happens when love is tested in the face of uncertainty?
Answer:
As I reflect on the question of what happens when love is tested in the face of uncertainty, I am reminded of the many challenges that Susan and I have faced in our 19 years of marriage. There have been times when we've had to navigate difficult circumstances, like when our son Joshua was going through a rebellious phase, or when our daughter Rebecca was struggling with self-esteem issues. But through it all, our love for each other has been tested, and I'm grateful to say that it has only grown stronger. In my pastoral work, I've seen many couples struggle with the same uncertainty that Carole King sang about - wondering if the love they feel is a lasting treasure or just a moment's pleasure. I've counseled them to look for the qualities of love that are described in Scripture - a responsibility that reignites feelings of joyous affection and strong passion. It's not just about following our feelings, but about making a commitment to each other and to God. As a pastor, I've come to realize that true love is not just a feeling, but a choice that we make every day. It's a choice to prioritize each other, even when things get tough. And it's a choice that requires faith, trust, and surrender to God. When we make that choice, we open ourselves up to the possibility of experiencing a love that is deeper, richer, and more fulfilling than we ever thought possible. That's what I've learned from my own marriage, and that's what I try to share with others through my ministry.
Sources:
letters of john
john stott
introduction biblical ethics
robertson mcquilkin
true sexual morality
daniel heimbach
meaning of marriage
timothy keller
right thinking in age of chaos
john macarthur
new testament background and message
thomas lea
proverbs
lindsay wilson
my utmost for his highest
oswald chambers
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