Biblical Answer

The Unnatural Act of Forgiveness

Forgiveness is an unnatural act that requires practice to perfect it. It is a process, not an event, and we often need to relinquish our bitterness multiple times. Forgiveness is a counterintuitive act that goes against our natural instincts to defend ourselves or seek revenge. However, as Christians, we are called to forgive as we have been forgiven. This means that we must let go of our resentment and bitterness, even when we have been hurt or sinned against.

Forgiveness and the Sovereignty of God

Forgiveness is a prerogative of God alone, as Stott notes. Only God can forgive the sins we commit against Him. However, as Christians, we are called to forgive others, even when they have wronged us. This is not to say that we forget what has happened, but rather that we do not hold their sin against them. Forgiveness does not mean that we condone or excuse their behavior, but rather that we choose to release them from the burden of our anger and resentment. This is a difficult choice, but one that is essential for living a life of peace and reconciliation.

The Connection between Forgiveness and Being Forgiven

The connection between our forgiving and being forgiven is a crucial one. Jesus teaches that we must forgive others in order to be forgiven by God. This is not a conditional forgiveness, but rather a necessary one. When we choose to forgive others, we are reminded of God's forgiveness of us and we are able to experience His peace and reconciliation. Forgiveness is not a one-time event, but rather a process that we must continually renew and practice. By choosing to forgive others, we are able to experience the forgiveness of God and live a life of peace and reconciliation.