Biblical Answer

The Challenge of Betrayal: Finding Closure with God

When a family member scams us, it can be a devastating experience. The trust we had in them is shattered, and our emotions are left to grapple with the pain of betrayal. The question of finding closure after such an experience can be a daunting one. However, as believers, we can find solace in the truth that God is sovereign over all things, including our family relationships. His word teaches us that He is the One who ordains the course of human events, including the events that unfold in our families (Proverbs 19:21). This understanding can help us to trust in His goodness and sovereignty, even when we are hurt by the actions of a family member.

In the midst of this pain, it is essential to seek closure with God, not with the person who has wronged us. This means acknowledging our emotions and allowing ourselves to grieve, but also recognizing that our healing and restoration come from God alone. The Bible teaches us to cast our cares upon Him, knowing that He cares for us (1 Peter 5:7). As we seek to find closure with God, we can also find comfort in His presence and promises. We can meditate on His Word, which reminds us that He is a God of redemption and restoration (Psalm 103:2-5). He can take our brokenness and make it into something beautiful, if we will trust in Him.

The message from the unknown source is not a prediction of the timing of the family member's death, but rather a reminder of God's sovereignty and goodness. It is a call to trust in Him, even when we are faced with difficult circumstances. As we seek to find closure with God, we can also find strength to forgive and heal. Forgiveness does not mean forgetting or excusing the wrongs of others, but rather releasing the hold that their actions have on us. By choosing to forgive and trust in God's goodness, we can find peace and closure, even in the midst of pain and betrayal. Ultimately, our goal is not to find closure with the person who has wronged us, but with God, who is the only One who can truly heal and restore us.