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Your Question:
What if I'm not able to forgive my parents for what they did?
Answer:
Forgiveness is a choice we make, and it's not always easy. As a pastor, I've seen many people struggle with unforgiveness, including family members. It's not just about forgiving others, but also about forgiving ourselves. If we don't forgive, it can bring death into our lives in one form or another. That's why it's so important to pray for the person we need to forgive, even if it's hard at first. As a parent, I want my children to learn to forgive others, including their siblings, family members, and even themselves. I've seen how unforgiveness can affect relationships and lead to negative emotions and guilt. That's why I've encouraged my children to pray for those they need to forgive and to model forgiveness in our home. By doing so, I hope they'll see the importance of forgiveness and make it a part of their lives. If you're struggling to forgive your parents, I would encourage you to pray for them and to seek God's guidance. Remember that forgiveness doesn't change the past, but it can change our lives and relationships in the present. It's not always easy, but it's a choice we must make if we want to live free from the weight of unforgiveness. As the Bible says, "If you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you" (Matthew 6:14-15).
Sources:
power of a praying parent
stormie omartian
systematic theology
wayne grudem
addictions a banquet in the grave
edward t welch
raising kids to follow christ
lee ann mancini
true sexual morality
daniel heimbach
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