Biblical Answer

As a pastor and a husband, I've learned that keeping our family tight and together requires determination and effort. With my wife Susan and I having been married for 19 years, we've seen our fair share of challenges. Our children, Joshua and Rebecca, are growing up, and their schedules are getting busier by the day. Between school, sports, and social activities, it's easy to get caught up in the chaos and lose sight of what's truly important.

To keep our family close, I believe it's essential to prioritize quality time together. Whether it's having a family game night, going on a picnic, or simply having a family dinner, we need to make time for each other. As Diane said, "It will not happen without concerted effort and a great deal of planning." We need to be proactive in planning activities and outings that bring us together. For us, it's often about finding activities that we can all enjoy, like playing baseball with Joshua or reading science fiction novels with Rebecca.

One way we've found to keep our family connected is by serving others together. Whether it's volunteering at a local food bank or participating in a church outreach program, serving others helps us focus on what's truly important. It's also a great way to teach our children the value of compassion and generosity. By working together to serve others, we're building a stronger sense of community and family. As the Bible says, "Whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me" (Matthew 25:40).