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Your Question:
Can I ever forgive my family for not being there for me?
Answer:
As a pastor, I've seen my fair share of families struggling with unforgiveness. It's a heavy burden to carry, and it can be challenging to let go of the pain and hurt that's been inflicted. I remember when I first started to reflect on my own family dynamics, I noticed a pattern of unforgiveness that had been passed down through generations. It was as if this trait had become a part of our family's DNA, and it was affecting our relationships with one another. As I continued to reflect on this, I realized that forgiveness isn't just about the other person; it's also about us. It's about letting go of the anger and hurt that's been holding us back. As the Bible says, "If you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you" (Matthew 6:14-15). This is a powerful reminder that forgiveness is a two-way street. When we choose to forgive, we're not only releasing the other person from their debt, but we're also opening ourselves up to healing and restoration. For me, forgiveness is a process that requires effort and commitment. It's not something that happens overnight, but rather it's a journey that we take one step at a time. As I've learned to forgive my family members, I've noticed that my heart has become softer toward them. I've been able to see them in a new light, and I've been able to rebuild our relationships. It's not always easy, but it's worth it. As I've said to my congregation many times, forgiveness is a choice that we make every day, and it's a choice that can bring freedom and healing to our lives.
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raising kids to follow christ
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true sexual morality
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