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Can our daily choices bring new life to our relationships when we're feeling anxious?

Answer:

As a pastor and a husband, I've learned that daily choices can indeed bring new life to our relationships, even in the midst of anxiety. When my wife Susan and I were struggling with our children's behavior, we found that taking a step back, communicating effectively, and prioritizing quality time together helped to diffuse tension and create a more positive atmosphere.

In our household, we've made a conscious effort to prioritize affection, affirmation, and fun. This has been especially important during our children's teenage years, when anxiety and self-doubt can be overwhelming. By making time for activities that bring us joy, like playing chess together or watching the Chicago Cubs play, we're able to reconnect and strengthen our relationships.

As I reflect on my own struggles with anxiety, I've come to realize that it's not about avoiding anxiety altogether, but about learning to navigate it in a way that brings us closer to each other. By being intentional about our daily choices and prioritizing our relationships, we can create a sense of safety and security that helps to mitigate the effects of anxiety. This, in turn, allows us to be the non-anxious presence that Jesus calls us to be, even in the midst of chaos and uncertainty.

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