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Your Question:
Can I still be a good friend if I'm struggling to take care of myself?
Answer:
As a pastor and a father, I've had the privilege of being around people who are struggling, and I've seen firsthand the importance of genuine friendship. You see, being a good friend isn't just about being there for someone when they're feeling down, but also about being there when they're not. It's about being consistent and transparent, as Proverbs says. Now, when it comes to taking care of yourself, it's essential to remember that we can't pour from an empty cup. If you're struggling to take care of yourself, it might be challenging to be a good friend, but that doesn't mean you can't be one at all. In fact, being a good friend often requires putting on a friendly manner, even when you don't feel like it. As Proverbs says, "Faithful are the wounds of a friend" (Proverbs 27:6). It's through these genuine, real friendships that we can find the support and encouragement we need to overcome our struggles. But, I want to emphasize that being a good friend doesn't mean you have to be perfect. It's okay to struggle, and it's okay to not have all the answers. What's essential is that you're willing to be there for others, even when it's hard. As I always tell my kids, being a good friend means being someone who can be trusted, someone who can be counted on. And, yes, that means being there for others, even when you're struggling to take care of yourself.
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