Biblical Answer

The Mysterious Nature of Suffering

The question of why God allows suffering in our families is a complex and difficult one to answer. It is a question that has puzzled believers and unbelievers alike for centuries. On the one hand, it seems that a loving God would not allow so much suffering in the world. On the other hand, we know that God is a God of love and compassion who desires to bring good out of all things, even suffering.

Suffering and Relationship with God

However, the question of why God allows suffering in our families may be misguided. Instead of asking why God allows suffering, we should be asking how we can find God in our suffering. The Bible teaches us that suffering can be a means of drawing us closer to God. When we undergo suffering, we are forced to confront our own limitations and weaknesses, and to seek God's help and guidance. In this sense, suffering can be a catalyst for spiritual growth and development. As the Bible says, "We also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope" (Romans 5:3-4). By finding God in our suffering, we can turn what seems like a negative experience into a positive one.

The Sovereignty of God

Ultimately, the question of why God allows suffering in our families is a mystery that we may not fully understand. But we do know that God is sovereign over all things, including suffering. He is the one who brings good out of all things, even suffering. As the Bible says, "And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose" (Romans 8:28). By trusting in God's sovereignty and goodness, we can find peace and comfort in the midst of suffering, even when we do not understand why it is happening. As the psalmist says, "God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble" (Psalm 46:1). By seeking God in our suffering, we can find the strength and courage to persevere, even in the midst of great pain and difficulty.