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Your Question:
how do i forgive myself for not being able to provide for my family?
Answer:
My friend, I can sense the weight of guilt and self-blame that's been weighing on you. As a pastor, I've seen many people struggle with feelings of inadequacy and unforgiveness, especially when it comes to providing for their families. But let me tell you, forgiveness is not about changing the past or excusing our mistakes, but about breaking free from the chains of guilt and shame that bind us. You see, forgiveness is not just about forgiving others, but also about forgiving ourselves. It's about recognizing that we are forgiven by God, not because of our worthiness, but because of His love and mercy. As the Bible says, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9). So, I encourage you to remember that you are forgiven, not because of what you've done or haven't done, but because of what Christ has done for you. Now, I know it's hard to shake off the feeling of not being able to provide for your family, but I want to remind you that your worth and identity are not defined by your ability to provide. You are loved, valued, and cherished by God, regardless of your financial situation. As a father, I've struggled with similar feelings of inadequacy, but my wife Susan and I have learned to rely on God's provision and His love for us. So, I encourage you to do the same. Remember that forgiveness is a choice, and it's a choice that can set you free from the burden of guilt and shame.
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