How can I forgive myself for not being able to provide for my family when I'm the one who was supposed to take care of them?

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Forgiving myself for not being able to provide for my family when I'm the one who was supposed to take care of them is a challenge I've faced. As a pastor, I've learned that unforgiveness can be a pattern that runs deep in families. I've seen it in my own family and in the families I've counseled. It's a painful and unbiblical cycle that can lead to estrangement and even death, not just of relationships, but of the soul.

The reason forgiveness is so hard is that it doesn't change the past or excuse the behavior that led to the failure. It's not about excusing or justifying our actions, but about choosing to let go of the hurt and anger. As the Bible says, forgiveness is a choice we make, and it's a choice that can be hard, especially when we feel like we've let others down. But forgiveness is not just about the other person; it's also about us and our relationship with God. When we hold onto unforgiveness, we're holding onto a part of ourselves that's not free.

As I reflect on my own struggles with forgiveness, I'm reminded of the cost of forgiveness. It cost God the agony of the cross to forgive our sins. And it's not just about forgiving others; it's also about forgiving ourselves. I've come to realize that forgiveness is not just about what others have done to us, but also about what we've done to ourselves. It's about choosing to let go of the guilt and shame that can weigh us down and hold us back from living the life God has called us to live.

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